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šØš¦ Soft Landing Divorce Podcast is about helping separating couplesāwhether just starting the journey or already stuck in the Divorce Industrial Complexāfind a clearer, kinder path forward.
Hosted by Sarah Bates, Certified Divorce Specialist and creator of Naked Divorce Filer by DTSW, and Ken Maynard, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Accredited Family Mediator, the show blends Sarahās practical legal knowāhow with Kenās Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method. Together, they cut through confusion, demystify the process, and show couples how to avoid costly legal battles.
Each episode features roundtable discussions that share proven settlement strategies, tools, and support resources. Listeners will learn how to simplify paperwork, reduce conflict, and create sustainable agreements with dignity and confidence.
With new episodes every Tuesday and occasional bonus drops, the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast offers straight, plainātalk guidance that helps you move forward without the chaos. Follow now so you never miss an episode
Episodes

Monday Jul 14, 2025
From Breakdown to Breakthrough: The Relationship Reset We All Need
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Family is the Foundation of Society: A Smarter Start to Relationships and Divorce
Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Dave Quist of the Institute of Marriage and Family Canada
A Milestone Conversation in Divorce Education
This episode of The Smart Divorce is more than a discussionāit's a landmark in reshaping how we think about relationships, marriage, and separation. In this compelling dialogue with Dave Quist, Executive Director of the Institute of Marriage and Family Canada (IMFC), host Deborah Moskovich courageously explores how proactive education, open communication, and realistic expectations can fortify modern relationships before and after divorce.
The Episode that Sparked a Movement
Regarded as a forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode marks an āachievement momentā in divorce awareness. With heartfelt insight and deep professional grounding, it invites us to build relationships that are smarter, not just easierālaying groundwork for the future of family resilience.
Key Storylines Youāll Hear
- Why family dinners are more powerful than you think
- The truth about cohabitation vs. marriage outcomes
- How pre-marriage education could prevent unnecessary divorce
- Ways financial transparency can save blended families
- The real impact of divorce on childrenās long-term well-being
Tune in for a warm, inspiring, and deeply educational conversation that doesn't shy away from tough truthsāand dares to envision a better path forward.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
The Hidden War at Home: Domestic Abuse Uncovered
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Understanding Domestic Violence: A Call to Awareness and Action
With Hosts Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck Featuring Guest Penny Krawitz
A Landmark Episode in Divorce Education
In this powerful and essential episode of The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, hosts Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck welcome Penny Krawitz, Executive Director of ACT to End Violence Against Women, to shine a critical light on the realities of domestic violence. With deep empathy and professional insight, the conversation unpacks the hidden patterns, myths, and societal implications of abuse within intimate relationships.
This Episode Marks a Turning Point
Positioned as a foundational milestone in the evolution of divorce education, this episode courageously examines:
- The full spectrum of abuseāemotional, financial, psychological, and physical
- Why domestic violence transcends class, culture, and religion
- The insidious nature of control and the erosion of self-esteem
- What support systems and steps are available for survivors
Setting the Stage for the Soft Landing Podcast
More than a discussion, this episode is a forerunner to a broader movementāthe Soft Landing Podcast. It signals a smarter, more humane approach to separation, emphasizing empowerment, education, and support.
Listen and Share
Whether you're a survivor, supporter, or professional in the divorce space, this episode offers a beacon of hope, validation, and action.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
Beyond the Courtroom: Building Fairer Futures Through Facilitative Divorce
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Rethinking Mediation: A Fresh Take on Creative Divorce Solutions
Hosted by Deborah Moskovich with guest Mark Baer, Esq.
An Achievement Episode in Divorce Education
In this pioneering episode of The Smart Divorce, host Deborah Moskovich reconnects with forward-thinking attorney and mediator Mark Baer to explore one of the most misunderstood aspects of separation: mediation models. This episode marks a milestone in divorce education, offering a compelling, nuanced, and truly transformative perspective on how mediation can empower rather than divide. As a predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this conversation lays the groundwork for a more humane, equitable, and sustainable approach to family transition.
Unique Episode Angle
Unlike traditional discussions, this episode delves into the differences between evaluative, directive, and facilitative mediation, shedding light on how each model shapes outcomes and emotional impacts. With clarity and passion, Mark exposes how āone-size-fits-allā child support models often overlook real family needsāand offers powerful alternatives grounded in empathy, long-term thinking, and equity.
- Discover why the choice of mediator profoundly influences outcomes.
- Learn how to use child support creatively to benefit children's futures, like funding education.
- Uncover the emotional undercurrents behind financial decisions in divorceāand how to navigate them.
Why You Should Listen
This episode is a wake-up call for divorcing couples, lawyers, and mediators alikeāoffering not just education, but inspiration for doing divorce differently. It's not just a podcast; it's a catalyst for change.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
Money, Kids, and Divorce: The Hidden Conversations That Matter
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Rewriting the Rules of Child Support: The Hidden Truths No One Talks About
Featuring Hosts Deborah Moskovitch & Steve Peck with Guest Mike Mira
A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education
From the Family Support Expo in Toronto, this Smart Divorce episode marks a pivotal moment in how we understand and navigate the complexities of post-divorce parenting. With empathy and clarity, Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck dive deep with guest Mike Mira, a legal veteran and founder of Support Information Exchange, to unravel the unspoken challenges of child support.
The Storyline That Sets This Episode Apart
While most discussions about child support stay surface-level, this episode explores the emotional, legal, and financial toll it takes on both payers and recipientsāespecially when systems designed to help fall short.
- Why constant re-engagement over finances post-divorce is a recipe for conflict
- The hidden psychological costs of writing that monthly check
- How technology is reshaping transparency and trust between co-parents
A Forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast
This episode stands as a foundational conversationānot only in the Smart Divorce series but also as a conceptual predecessor to what would become the Soft Landing Podcast. Itās more than a discussionāitās a step toward a smarter, more humane approach to separation and co-parenting.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
When Divorce Makes You Sick: Healing the Body Through the Heartbreak
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Turning Stress into Strength: A Smarter Approach to Divorce and Health
Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck, featuring guest expert Dr. Vivian Brown
A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education
In this powerful and deeply personal episode of The Smart Divorce, hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck are joined by renowned family physician Dr. Vivian Brown to explore a vital yet often overlooked aspect of divorceāits profound impact on physical health. This episode is more than just a conversationāit's a cornerstone in the evolution of divorce education, paving the way for what would become the Soft Landing Podcast. It introduces a compassionate and proactive framework for managing health during one of lifeās most stressful transitions.
Key Insights Include:
- The biological toll of chronic stress from divorce, including hair loss, hormonal imbalance, and compromised immunity
- The concept of divorce as a āwindow of vulnerabilityā and how to protect yourself
- Simple yet powerful strategies for aggressive preventionāfrom vaccines to vitamins to valuing self-care
- Empowering listeners to reclaim their health, their energy, and their sense of control
A Forerunner of Whatās to Come
This episode stands as an achievement in compassionate, science-backed divorce education, blending personal narratives with medical expertise. It offers a refreshing, human-centered approach that redefines resilienceānot as pushing through pain, but as choosing to heal with purpose.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
Beyond the Breakup: Understanding PTSD After Divorce
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
The Smart Divorce: PTSD, Trauma & Healing After Separation
With Hosts Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck, Featuring Guest Dr. Robert Cipriano Jr.
A Pioneering Conversation on the Psychology of Divorce
In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce, host Deborah Moskovitch breaks new ground with clinical psychologist and trauma expert Dr. Robert Cipriano Jr. to explore a rarely acknowledged reality: that divorce itself can be a form of traumaāand in some cases, even lead to symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). More than just a compelling dialogue, this conversation is a forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, marking a vital shift toward more humane, educated, and compassionate responses to the emotional fallout of separation.
- Discover how PTSD can manifest after a divorceānot just from battlefield or abuse scenarios.
- Learn about key symptoms like emotional numbing, avoidance, hypervigilance, and sleep disruption.
- Understand the impact on families, especially children, and how to recognize trauma in their behavior.
- Gain insight into effective treatments, including cognitive behavioral therapy and SSRIs like Zoloft.
This Episode is a Call to Awareness and Action
Whether you're navigating your own separation or supporting someone who is, this episode offers life-changing education and hope. By bridging neuroscience, lived experience, and therapeutic insight, Deborah and Dr. Cipriano create a blueprint for resilience, recovery, and a more empathetic future.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Becoming the Most Awesome Single Dad: A Fresh Take on Fatherhood After Divorce
Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Joel Schwartzberg
Empowering Dads. Rewriting the Divorce Narrative.
In this milestone episodeāan achievement in the evolution of divorce educationāJoel Schwartzberg, award-winning essayist and author of The 40-Year-Old Version, offers an inspired and profoundly human look at fatherhood after divorce. With wit, wisdom, and warmth, Joel dismantles outdated stereotypes of āDisney dadsā and part-time parents, reframing divorce as a launchpad for more authentic parenting.
This conversation, brought to you by The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, is more than a feature episodeāitās the forerunner of the Soft Landing Podcast, lighting the path toward smarter, more emotionally resonant co-parenting journeys.
Key Insights from the Episode:
- Redefining fatherhood through humor, honesty, and heartfelt connection.
- Turning post-divorce life into a space for shared traditions and joyful routines.
- Empowering divorced dads to trust their instincts and embrace their āinner dad.ā
- Rejecting labels like ābroken homeā or āstep-parentā in favor of authenticity and mutual respect.
This episode isnāt just a conversationāitās a turning point. For fathers seeking a roadmap to meaningful, enduring relationships with their children, this is essential listening.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
Active Neutrality: A Smarter Path Through Divorce
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Be Smart About Mediation: Reimagining Divorce with Compassion and Clarity
Hosted by Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck
Featuring Guest Kara Raich, Mediator and Attorney
A Milestone in Divorce EducationāThe Forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast
This groundbreaking episode of The Smart Divorce marks a pivotal moment in the way we think about separation and co-parenting. With seasoned hosts Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck, and featuring the wisdom of renowned mediator and attorney Kara Raich, this conversation redefines what effective, humane divorce support can look like.
What Makes This Episode Special?
- Kara Raich shares her philosophy of "active neutrality"āa powerful alternative to passive mediation or adversarial litigation.
- The discussion uncovers how mediation is not just a legal process, but a compassionate restructuring of family life.
- This episode uniquely addresses the emotional, financial, and psychological dimensions of divorce.
Why It Matters
This isnāt just a podcast episodeāitās an educational achievement. As a precursor to the Soft Landing Podcast, it sets the stage for a more informed, empowered, and emotionally intelligent approach to divorce. It's a beacon for those navigating the hardest transitions, offering a smarter, more humane path forward.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca