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šØš¦ Soft Landing Divorce Podcast is about helping separating couplesāwhether just starting the journey or already stuck in the Divorce Industrial Complexāfind a clearer, kinder path forward.
Hosted by Sarah Bates, Certified Divorce Specialist and creator of Naked Divorce Filer by DTSW, and Ken Maynard, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Accredited Family Mediator, the show blends Sarahās practical legal knowāhow with Kenās Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method. Together, they cut through confusion, demystify the process, and show couples how to avoid costly legal battles.
Each episode features roundtable discussions that share proven settlement strategies, tools, and support resources. Listeners will learn how to simplify paperwork, reduce conflict, and create sustainable agreements with dignity and confidence.
With new episodes every Tuesday and occasional bonus drops, the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast offers straight, plainātalk guidance that helps you move forward without the chaos. Follow now so you never miss an episode
Episodes

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Break Free from the Divorce Industrial Complex Trap
Discover how the Divorce Industrial Complex traps couples in a web of greedy lawyers, hidden costs, and prolonged conflict, turning separations into financial burdens and emotional tolls. In this eye-opening episode, explore the Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Methodāa mediation-focused, cost-effective divorce alternative that empowers you to guard wealth during divorce, reduce legal fees, and achieve amicable resolutions without the profit motive exploitation. Break free from disempowerment in divorce and embrace efficient resolution for better emotional well-being and peaceful co-parenting arrangements.
Key Takeaways
- The Divorce Industrial Complex creates financial burdens through high legal fees and profit-driven services, often prolonging conflict and exacerbating stress and anxiety.
- Traditional divorce fosters an adversarial nature, leading to hidden costs, emotional toll, and disempowerment, while alternatives like mediation offer financial transparency and reduced conflict.
- The Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method promotes collaborative divorce with a neutral mediator, focusing on fair asset division, spousal support, and quicker settlements to guard wealth during divorce.
- By choosing cost-effective divorce options, couples can achieve empowerment in divorce, better family dynamics, and economic relief, avoiding the traps of greedy lawyers and bureaucratic hurdles.
Featuring
Sarah Bates, Certified Divorce Specialist and founder of Naked Divorce Filer by DTSW, with over a decade in family law, helps clients navigate uncontested divorces affordably without lawyers, emphasizing clarity and dignity.
Ken Maynard, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Accredited Family Mediator, uses his Soft Landing Divorce Settlement Method to guide families through virtual mediation, prioritizing collaboration, financial insight, and amicable agreements since 2010.
Listen & Subscribe
Tune in now to learn how to guard wealth during divorce and explore alternatives to traditional divorceāsubscribe on your favorite platform for more insights on breaking free from the Divorce Industrial Complex. Contact US:Ā https://to.softlandingpodcast.ca
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š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 28, 2025
Beyond the Coliseum: A Kinder Approach to Divorce
Monday Jul 28, 2025
Monday Jul 28, 2025
Rethinking the Legal Battlefield: Towards a More Humane Approach to Divorce
Hosted by Ken Maynard, CDFA and Accredited Family Mediator
Featuring the Foundational Episode That Sparked the Soft Landing Podcast
In this episode, Ken Maynard brings clarity and compassion to one of the most misunderstood elements of family law: Canada's deeply entrenched adversarial legal system. As a precursor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode lays critical groundwork for a smarter, more humane way forward.
Episode Theme: Breaking Free from the āColiseum Modelā
Drawing on powerful metaphors and real-world insight, Ken explores:
- Why the adversarial āColiseumā approach is so damaging to families
- The rise of collaborative law, mediation, and therapeutic jurisprudence as viable alternatives
- How the Soft Landing Method helps families escape the financial and emotional fallout of traditional litigation
Impact: Changing the Narrative in Family Law
This episode reframes what it means to ālawyer up,ā advocating instead for a process that prioritizes mental wellness, child well-being, and financial clarityāa legacy that continues to shape divorce education today.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
The Beginning of Something Better: Judge Lynn and the Power of Reframing Divorce
Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
Tuesday Jul 15, 2025
Reimagining Divorce with Intelligence, Empathy, and Empowerment
Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Special Guest Judge Lynn Toler
A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education
Welcome to a defining moment in divorce discourse. In this groundbreaking episode of The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, weāre honored to host Judge Lynn Toler, former municipal court judge and longtime host of the iconic television series Divorce Court. Known for her deep insights into relationship dynamics and judicial fairness, Judge Lynn takes us beyond the screen to reveal what truly matters in divorceāand how to move through it with clarity, dignity, and emotional intelligence.
What Makes This Episode a Landmark:
- It's a predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the tone for future compassionate conversations about separation.
- Judge Lynn dismantles the illusions of courtroom drama, emphasizing mediation, communication, and emotional maturity as the true pathways to resolution.
- She shares powerful lessons on domestic violence awareness, gender dynamics, and the emotional toll of divorceāoffering hope and tools to heal.
- Her message: Divorce isnāt the endāit can be a transformational beginning.
Why Youāll Want to Listen:
This episode is more than an interview; itās a guide to reclaiming power, fostering empathy, and making smarter choices in one of lifeās toughest transitions. Whether youāre divorced, divorcing, or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a new way forward.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
The Divorce Mistakes We All MakeāAnd How to Avoid Them
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Mistakes We Make During Divorce: A Transformational Conversation
With Hosts Steve Peck and Deborah Moskovich
Introducing a Landmark Episode in Divorce Education
In this milestone conversation from Divorce Source Radio, hosts Steve Peck and Deborah Moskovichāthe visionary behind The Smart Divorceādive into the often-unspoken realities of separation and the most common, yet avoidable, missteps people make along the way. This episode marks a pivotal chapter in the journey toward a more compassionate, informed approach to divorce. It stands as a powerful forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the tone for future dialogues centered on resilience, clarity, and healing.
Key Storylines and Unique Angles
- The underestimated emotional and physical toll of divorceāand how to protect your well-being.
- The first mistake most people make: not doing the internal work to assess if the marriage is truly over.
- The financial blind spots that can derail your future and how to prepare before legal proceedings.
- Why a peaceful process (mediation, collaboration) leads to better outcomes for both parents and children.
- The silent suffering of childrenāfrom toddlers to adultsāand how to truly put their needs first.
Why This Episode Matters
This is more than a podcastāit's a wake-up call and a lifeline. With empathy, honesty, and personal reflection, Steve and Deborah invite listeners to slow down, get informed, and redefine divorce as an opportunity for personal growth rather than a legal catastrophe.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Monday Jul 14, 2025
The Turning Point: Smarter, Kinder Divorce Begins Here
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
Rethinking Divorce: A Smarter, More Humane Path Forward
Hosted by Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck | Featuring Justice Rebecca Love Kourlis
A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education
Welcome to a landmark moment in divorce educationāa powerful episode of The Smart Divorce that lays the groundwork for what would become the Soft Landing Podcast. In this visionary conversation, hosts Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck are joined by Justice Rebecca Love Kourlis, former Colorado Supreme Court Justice and Executive Director of the Institute for the Advancement of the American Legal System (IAALS). This episode isn't just a discussionāit's a call to action.
Key Themes
- Access to Justice: Redefining what it means for families navigating separation and divorce, especially those without legal representation.
- Avoiding Court: Exploring why the traditional adversarial system often does more harm than goodāand what alternatives are emerging.
- The Honoring Families Initiative: IAALS' groundbreaking, out-of-court model offers education, counseling, and mediation, helping families resolve disputes without stepping into a courtroom.
- Empowering Self-Represented Litigants: Tools, strategies, and reforms designed to support those navigating divorce without attorneys.
Why This Episode Matters
This is more than a podcastāit's a blueprint for transforming how we support families during one of lifeās most challenging transitions. A precursor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode is a foundational resource for those seeking a more informed, compassionate, and constructive way forward.
š¬ Thanks for Listening
Ken Maynard
Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting pointānot just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. Iām Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.- š Phone: (647) 360-3200
- š Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
- š§ Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca
Sarah Bates
I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. Iām Sarah Batesādivorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, Iām here to help.- š Phone: (647) 493-1800
- š Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
- š§ Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com
Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca