What Should We Tell the Children?

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Dr. Joan Kelly

A Milestone in Divorce Education

This powerful episode of The Smart Divorce marks a pivotal step toward more compassionate, informed, and child-focused separation. Featuring internationally renowned psychologist and divorce expert Dr. Joan Kelly, this conversation delivers a masterclass in one of the most emotionally charged moments of divorce: telling your children.

The Episode That Paved the Way for the Soft Landing Podcast

Before the Soft Landing Podcast redefined humane separation, this episode set the standard. It's an achievement episode—a foundational conversation that reshaped how families approach divorce, emphasizing transparency, empathy, and preparation.

Key Takeaways

• Why only 5% of parents inform their children with intention—and how to change that.
• How to script age-appropriate conversations that foster stability and security.
• The three critical messages every child must hear: “It’s not your fault, we love you, and we’re still your parents.”
• What to say, what to avoid, and how to prepare when co-parenting under one roof.

Inspiration for a Smarter Tomorrow

Deborah and Steve’s vulnerability, coupled with Dr. Kelly’s decades of research, create a deeply moving and practical guide for parents facing one of life’s most difficult transitions. If you’re navigating divorce, this is the conversation that will change how you do it—and how your children remember it.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Tell the Children

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Protecting Your Children Through Divorce: A Smarter, More Compassionate Approach

With Hosts Deborah Moskovich & Steve Peck, Featuring Guest Rosalind Sedacca

Welcome to a Milestone in Divorce Education

This powerful episode of The Smart Divorce marks an achievement moment in the evolving landscape of family separation. With empathy, insight, and practical guidance, this conversation serves as a cornerstone in reshaping how parents navigate divorce with their children at heart—laying the emotional and educational groundwork for what would later become the Soft Landing Podcast.

A Groundbreaking Conversation

Our featured guest, Rosalind Sedacca—recognized globally as the voice of Child-Centered Divorce—shares her visionary work, including the creation of International Child-Centered Divorce Month. Together with host Deborah Moskovich, they explore:

• How to shield children from emotional harm during and after divorce
• Why January is known as "Divorce Month" and what that means for families
• Effective, child-focused communication strategies and practical tools like Sedacca’s customizable storybook
• The dangers of “parentifying” children and how to preserve their childhood

A Legacy of Insight and Change

This is more than a podcast—it's a movement toward smarter, more humane separations. As a predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, it captures the heart of what matters most: protecting the next generation through informed, intentional choices.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

It's Never Too Late to Have a Good Childhood: A Milestone in Divorce Healing

Featuring: Deborah Moskovich and Ron Sapanchek, with host Steve Peck

A Landmark Episode in Divorce Education

This special episode of The Smart Divorce is more than just a conversation—it's a breakthrough in how we understand the long-reaching effects of divorce and the enduring possibility of healing. Ron Sapanchek, a celebrated family lawyer and host of his own show, courageously shares a deeply personal, never-before-told story of childhood abandonment, emotional reconciliation, and parental reunification after nearly four decades apart. His journey from a "wounded healer" to a pioneer of humane divorce practices underscores the belief that divorce is not just an ending, but a profound opportunity for transformation.

Legacy and Impact

Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck guide this conversation with warmth and empathy, positioning this episode as:

• A forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the emotional and philosophical tone for what’s to come
• An achievement in divorce education—offering fresh, empathetic frameworks like mission statements and storytelling for families in crisis
• A story of generational healing that will inspire both professionals and those navigating separation

Why This Episode Matters

Ron’s story is not just heartwarming—it’s transformative. His experiences challenge the notion of “broken families,” emphasizing communication, compassion, and second chances.

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💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

It’s All About the Kids: A Smarter, More Humane Approach to Parenting After Divorce

Featuring Hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck with Guest Dr. Philip Stahl

A Groundbreaking Episode in Divorce Education

In this milestone conversation, Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck sit down with Dr. Philip Stahl, a leading psychologist, author, and educator specializing in high-conflict divorce and child custody. As a powerful predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode sets the tone for a new era—one grounded in empathy, accountability, and child-centered solutions.

Why This Episode Matters

This is not just another podcast—it's an achievement episode in the realm of divorce education, reframing co-parenting and post-separation life as opportunities for growth and resilience.

• Dr. Stahl shares deeply human stories and expert guidance on creating customized parenting plans that prioritize children’s well-being over rigid formulas.
• The discussion explores co-parenting vs. parallel parenting, highlighting real-world tools for managing conflict and fostering trust.
• Listeners are reminded that “parenting isn’t a percentage”—it's about presence, quality, and modeling responsibility.

A Message of Hope

Whether you're navigating a high-conflict separation or quietly adjusting to single parenting, this episode offers a beacon of compassion and clarity. As Dr. Stahl so poignantly puts it, “It's not about the parents. It’s about the kids.”

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca