What Should We Tell the Children?

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Dr. Joan Kelly

A Milestone in Divorce Education

This powerful episode of The Smart Divorce marks a pivotal step toward more compassionate, informed, and child-focused separation. Featuring internationally renowned psychologist and divorce expert Dr. Joan Kelly, this conversation delivers a masterclass in one of the most emotionally charged moments of divorce: telling your children.

The Episode That Paved the Way for the Soft Landing Podcast

Before the Soft Landing Podcast redefined humane separation, this episode set the standard. It's an achievement episode—a foundational conversation that reshaped how families approach divorce, emphasizing transparency, empathy, and preparation.

Key Takeaways

• Why only 5% of parents inform their children with intention—and how to change that.
• How to script age-appropriate conversations that foster stability and security.
• The three critical messages every child must hear: “It’s not your fault, we love you, and we’re still your parents.”
• What to say, what to avoid, and how to prepare when co-parenting under one roof.

Inspiration for a Smarter Tomorrow

Deborah and Steve’s vulnerability, coupled with Dr. Kelly’s decades of research, create a deeply moving and practical guide for parents facing one of life’s most difficult transitions. If you’re navigating divorce, this is the conversation that will change how you do it—and how your children remember it.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Tell the Children

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Redefining Divorce: A Kinder Path Forward

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich with guest John Schuman

From Conflict to Compassion: The Power of Alternative Dispute Resolution

In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce, recorded live at the Family Support Expo in Toronto, Deborah Moskovich welcomes seasoned family lawyer John Schuman for an eye-opening conversation on how separating couples can break away from adversarial courtroom battles. Marking an achievement in divorce education, this discussion challenges outdated assumptions—proving that divorce doesn’t have to mean destruction. It stands as a proud predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the stage for more humane and thoughtful separations. What makes this episode uniquely impactful?

• An empathetic breakdown of litigation vs. ADR—why court may be the worst option for your family.
• Real-world examples of how mediation, arbitration, and collaborative law offer agency, privacy, and peace.
• Key insights into protecting children’s well-being while preserving dignity on both sides.

This isn’t just an episode—it’s a turning point.

Whether you're navigating a separation or guiding others through one, this conversation will leave you with tools, hope, and the affirmation that a smarter, softer landing is possible.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

The Shared Custody Experience: A New Chapter in Divorce Education

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Researcher Denise Whitehead

An Achievement Episode and Foundational Moment for the Soft Landing Podcast

In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce, we take a profound step forward in reshaping how we understand the real-world impact of divorce on children—especially those who live within shared custody arrangements. This episode stands as an early forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, marking an educational pivot toward empathy, research-driven insight, and true child-centered divorce planning.

Unique Storyline: Children’s Voices, Finally Heard

Our featured guest, Denise Whitehead—lawyer, social scientist, and PhD in Family Relations—shares groundbreaking research on how young adults reflect on their experiences growing up in shared custody homes. The episode brings to life not only academic findings but also deeply personal, often tearful stories from the children themselves.

• Insights from adult children who navigated complex custody dynamics and still emerged with strength, clarity, and purpose.
• What children really feel about the fairness, transitions, and emotional labor involved in shared custody.
• How parenting plans must evolve as children grow—emotionally, socially, and developmentally.

Why This Episode Matters

It’s a compelling call to listen differently—not just to each other as co-parents, but to our children, who are often silently adjusting their lives to protect us. This episode doesn't just offer information—it delivers transformation.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Forgiveness as a Path to Healing: A Smarter Way Forward After Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Dr. Mark Rye

Milestone Episode in Divorce Education—A Predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast

This powerful episode of The Smart Divorce marks a transformative shift in how we understand and experience separation. In what can only be called a landmark conversation, host Deborah Moskovich welcomes Dr. Mark Rye, Associate Professor of Psychology at Skidmore College, whose pioneering research on forgiveness illuminates an often-overlooked but crucial part of healing.

A Unique Angle: Forgiveness & the Parent-Child Dynamic

Rather than framing forgiveness as forgetting or condoning harm, this episode reframes it as an act of personal liberation—especially vital for parents navigating life after divorce. Dr. Rye shares compelling insights into how forgiving an ex-spouse can:

• Reduce depression and enhance emotional well-being
• Improve parenting and reduce child exposure to conflict
• Change toxic dynamics by “taking back the remote control” on emotional triggers

A Smarter, More Humane Approach

This episode is not just another conversation—it's a foundational step toward a healthier, more compassionate post-divorce journey. It embodies the guiding philosophy that would later shape the Soft Landing Podcast, making it a must-listen for anyone ready to move forward with clarity, grace, and courage.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Recognizing the Signs: A Smarter, More Empathetic Approach to Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck

Featuring Insights from the Pioneering Voice Behind The Smart Divorce

In this powerful and thought-provoking achievement episode of The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, host Deborah Moskovich joins Steve Peck to explore the critical—but often overlooked—early warning signs that a spouse may be planning to divorce. Framed with compassion and wisdom, this conversation is a landmark in divorce education, laying the groundwork for what would later become the Soft Landing Podcast.

Why This Episode Matters

• It shines a light on the emotional and financial cues that often precede a separation—like rejigging gifts from in-laws, juggling assets, and withdrawals from joint credit lines.
• It validates the confusion, fear, and isolation people feel when blindsided by divorce.
• It emphasizes introspection, emotional readiness, and professional guidance over reactionary decisions.

What You'll Take Away

• Signs that your relationship may be in quiet crisis.
• The critical role of financial awareness and self-advocacy.
• Why friends may not be the best advisors—and how a divorce consultant can provide clarity and calm.

This episode is not just a guide—it’s a compassionate companion for anyone navigating uncertainty in their marriage. It's also a pivotal moment in reshaping how we talk about divorce: with honesty, dignity, and hope.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Reimagining Divorce with Intelligence, Empathy, and Empowerment

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Special Guest Judge Lynn Toler

A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education

Welcome to a defining moment in divorce discourse. In this groundbreaking episode of The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, we’re honored to host Judge Lynn Toler, former municipal court judge and longtime host of the iconic television series Divorce Court. Known for her deep insights into relationship dynamics and judicial fairness, Judge Lynn takes us beyond the screen to reveal what truly matters in divorce—and how to move through it with clarity, dignity, and emotional intelligence.

What Makes This Episode a Landmark:

• It's a predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the tone for future compassionate conversations about separation.
• Judge Lynn dismantles the illusions of courtroom drama, emphasizing mediation, communication, and emotional maturity as the true pathways to resolution.
• She shares powerful lessons on domestic violence awareness, gender dynamics, and the emotional toll of divorce—offering hope and tools to heal.
• Her message: Divorce isn’t the end—it can be a transformational beginning.

Why You’ll Want to Listen:

This episode is more than an interview; it’s a guide to reclaiming power, fostering empathy, and making smarter choices in one of life’s toughest transitions. Whether you’re divorced, divorcing, or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a new way forward.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Surviving Domestic Violence: A New Chapter of Hope and Safety

With Hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck, Featuring Guests Rachel and Tim Wenzel

Breaking Free, Finding Strength

In this powerful achievement episode of The Smart Divorce—a trailblazer and forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast—we spotlight a story that transcends survival and celebrates the courage to start anew. Join hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck as they welcome Rachel, a brave mother and educator, who recounts her harrowing yet inspiring journey out of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse. Rachel's escape wasn't spontaneous—it was a meticulously planned operation, guided by protective security expert Tim Wenzel. With empathy, resilience, and precision, this episode unpacks the logistics of “leaving without a trace,” the emotional toll of domestic abuse, and the transformative power of support and planning.

This Episode Is a Milestone Because:

• It highlights the often-invisible trauma of emotional and verbal abuse.
• It illustrates a rare collaboration between a survivor and a security consultant.
• It boldly challenges societal and religious stigmas surrounding divorce and abuse.
• It empowers listeners with tangible steps toward safety, healing, and self-worth.

Key Takeaway

Abuse thrives in silence. Healing begins with hope—and a plan. This episode is a testament that with the right support, it is possible to break generational cycles of violence and create a future defined by love, freedom, and dignity.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca