Rethinking the Legal Battlefield: Towards a More Humane Approach to Divorce

Hosted by Ken Maynard, CDFA and Accredited Family Mediator

Featuring the Foundational Episode That Sparked the Soft Landing Podcast

In this episode, Ken Maynard brings clarity and compassion to one of the most misunderstood elements of family law: Canada's deeply entrenched adversarial legal system. As a precursor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode lays critical groundwork for a smarter, more humane way forward.

Episode Theme: Breaking Free from the “Coliseum Model”

Drawing on powerful metaphors and real-world insight, Ken explores:

• Why the adversarial “Coliseum” approach is so damaging to families
• The rise of collaborative law, mediation, and therapeutic jurisprudence as viable alternatives
• How the Soft Landing Method helps families escape the financial and emotional fallout of traditional litigation

Impact: Changing the Narrative in Family Law

This episode reframes what it means to “lawyer up,” advocating instead for a process that prioritizes mental wellness, child well-being, and financial clarity—a legacy that continues to shape divorce education today.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Inside the Mind of a Family Court Judge: A Wake-Up Call for Divorcing Parents

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Justice Harvey Brownstone

A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education

This episode of *The Smart Divorce* is a powerful achievement in reshaping how we view the courtroom in the context of separation. With honesty, empathy, and decades of experience, Justice Harvey Brownstone—renowned family court judge and author of Tug of War—shares a deeply human look inside the legal system’s treatment of divorce and parenting conflicts. This conversation isn’t just an interview; it’s a rare opportunity to hear from a sitting judge who dares to educate, enlighten, and inspire reform.

The Forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast

Consider this a spiritual predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, establishing the foundation for a new, humane approach to separation—where emotional intelligence meets legal reality.

What Makes This Episode Unique?

• A judge’s insider perspective on the emotional toll and legal misconceptions of family court.
• Real-world cautionary tales about self-representation, financial disclosure, and “winning” in court.
• Hard truths about how litigation can devastate children—and how to protect them.
• Heartfelt encouragement for mediation, collaboration, and slowing down the decision-making process.

Why This Episode Matters

It’s a wake-up call for anyone considering litigation: court is not about validation—it’s about legal procedure. This episode empowers listeners to make informed, compassionate choices for themselves and their families.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca