Out of the Closet, Into the Light: Healing After a Spouse Comes Out

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck

Featuring Special Guest: Dr. Amity Buxton

In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce—a forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast—we courageously step into one of the most unspoken, yet profoundly human chapters in the world of divorce: when a spouse comes out as LGBTQ+ within a heterosexual marriage. Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck are joined by Dr. Amity Buxton, founder of the Straight Spouse Network and author of The Other Side of the Closet, to illuminate the emotional complexities, deep-seated grief, and powerful healing that follows this life-altering revelation.

This episode is a pivotal achievement in divorce education:

• Explores the silent trauma experienced by straight spouses and their children.
• Reframes the disclosure as a family-wide transformation—not just a personal event.
• Shares the six stages of recovery, offering validation and hope to anyone feeling shattered by the truth.
• Highlights the lived experience of both partners—with empathy, not blame.

This episode is more than education—it's a compassionate call to reimagine how we support one another through the most intimate upheavals. Whether you're navigating a similar path or seeking to understand, this conversation is the beginning of a smarter, more humane approach to separation.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Designing a New Life: Creating Home After Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Deirdre Dyent

Episode Theme: From “We” to “Me”—Transforming Space, Healing Hearts

In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce—a forerunner to the impactful Soft Landing Podcast—we venture beyond legalities and into the intimate spaces of post-divorce transformation. Deborah Moskovich, renowned divorce consultant and author, welcomes interior designer and emotional transition expert Deirdre Dyent, in a conversation that reshapes how we think about home after separation. What makes this episode an “achievement” in divorce education? It’s the first to address home design as emotional recovery. This isn’t just about where you live—it’s how you heal.

• Why your space matters: How your environment reflects your emotional state post-divorce
• Designing with children in mind: Creating continuity and safety across two homes
• From chaos to comfort: Practical strategies for turning dismal beginnings into fresh starts
• Emotional architecture: Avoiding “revenge decorating” and embracing authenticity

This inspiring and practical conversation offers hope and dignity for anyone navigating the emotional upheaval of moving on. A brighter, more humane approach to separation starts here.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Honoring the End, Embracing a New Beginning: Reimagining Divorce Through Ritual and Reflection

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck
Special Guest: Rabbi Ann Brenner

Episode Theme: Mourning Divorce and Creating Meaningful New Rituals

This milestone episode of The Smart Divorce sets a powerful precedent in the evolution of divorce education—marking a turning point toward a more compassionate, spiritually attuned approach to separation and loss. In what can only be called an “achievement episode,” Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck welcome the deeply insightful Rabbi Ann Brenner, author of Mourning & Mitzvah: A Guided Journal for Walking the Mourner's Path Through Grief to Healing, to explore how ancient rituals and psychological wisdom can help mourn the end of a marriage.

Key Storylines

• Reframing divorce as an ambiguous loss—one that deserves mourning, witness, and ritual just like a death.
• Introducing healing rituals: cutting a marriage certificate, cleansing with sage, or assembling a personal “court of witnesses.”
• Creating new traditions for holidays and special occasions post-divorce that foster identity, healing, and joy.

Why This Episode Matters

This episode doesn’t just educate—it liberates. It speaks directly to the soul of anyone who has felt unseen in the aftermath of divorce. As a forerunner to The Soft Landing Podcast, it lays the emotional and intellectual groundwork for a more humane, spiritually grounded conversation around life after marriage.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Mistakes We Make During Divorce: A Transformational Conversation

With Hosts Steve Peck and Deborah Moskovich

Introducing a Landmark Episode in Divorce Education

In this milestone conversation from Divorce Source Radio, hosts Steve Peck and Deborah Moskovich—the visionary behind The Smart Divorce—dive into the often-unspoken realities of separation and the most common, yet avoidable, missteps people make along the way. This episode marks a pivotal chapter in the journey toward a more compassionate, informed approach to divorce. It stands as a powerful forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the tone for future dialogues centered on resilience, clarity, and healing.

Key Storylines and Unique Angles

• The underestimated emotional and physical toll of divorce—and how to protect your well-being.
• The first mistake most people make: not doing the internal work to assess if the marriage is truly over.
• The financial blind spots that can derail your future and how to prepare before legal proceedings.
• Why a peaceful process (mediation, collaboration) leads to better outcomes for both parents and children.
• The silent suffering of children—from toddlers to adults—and how to truly put their needs first.

Why This Episode Matters

This is more than a podcast—it's a wake-up call and a lifeline. With empathy, honesty, and personal reflection, Steve and Deborah invite listeners to slow down, get informed, and redefine divorce as an opportunity for personal growth rather than a legal catastrophe.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Rethinking Divorce: A Smarter, More Humane Path Forward

Hosted by Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck | Featuring Justice Rebecca Love Kourlis

A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education

Welcome to a landmark moment in divorce education—a powerful episode of The Smart Divorce that lays the groundwork for what would become the Soft Landing Podcast. In this visionary conversation, hosts Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck are joined by Justice Rebecca Love Kourlis, former Colorado Supreme Court Justice and Executive Director of the Institute for the Advancement of the American Legal System (IAALS). This episode isn't just a discussion—it's a call to action.

Key Themes

• Access to Justice: Redefining what it means for families navigating separation and divorce, especially those without legal representation.
• Avoiding Court: Exploring why the traditional adversarial system often does more harm than good—and what alternatives are emerging.
• The Honoring Families Initiative: IAALS' groundbreaking, out-of-court model offers education, counseling, and mediation, helping families resolve disputes without stepping into a courtroom.
• Empowering Self-Represented Litigants: Tools, strategies, and reforms designed to support those navigating divorce without attorneys.

Why This Episode Matters

This is more than a podcast—it's a blueprint for transforming how we support families during one of life’s most challenging transitions. A precursor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode is a foundational resource for those seeking a more informed, compassionate, and constructive way forward.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

It's Never Too Late to Have a Good Childhood: A Milestone in Divorce Healing

Featuring: Deborah Moskovich and Ron Sapanchek, with host Steve Peck

A Landmark Episode in Divorce Education

This special episode of The Smart Divorce is more than just a conversation—it's a breakthrough in how we understand the long-reaching effects of divorce and the enduring possibility of healing. Ron Sapanchek, a celebrated family lawyer and host of his own show, courageously shares a deeply personal, never-before-told story of childhood abandonment, emotional reconciliation, and parental reunification after nearly four decades apart. His journey from a "wounded healer" to a pioneer of humane divorce practices underscores the belief that divorce is not just an ending, but a profound opportunity for transformation.

Legacy and Impact

Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck guide this conversation with warmth and empathy, positioning this episode as:

• A forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the emotional and philosophical tone for what’s to come
• An achievement in divorce education—offering fresh, empathetic frameworks like mission statements and storytelling for families in crisis
• A story of generational healing that will inspire both professionals and those navigating separation

Why This Episode Matters

Ron’s story is not just heartwarming—it’s transformative. His experiences challenge the notion of “broken families,” emphasizing communication, compassion, and second chances.

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💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

It’s All About the Kids: A Smarter, More Humane Approach to Parenting After Divorce

Featuring Hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck with Guest Dr. Philip Stahl

A Groundbreaking Episode in Divorce Education

In this milestone conversation, Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck sit down with Dr. Philip Stahl, a leading psychologist, author, and educator specializing in high-conflict divorce and child custody. As a powerful predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, this episode sets the tone for a new era—one grounded in empathy, accountability, and child-centered solutions.

Why This Episode Matters

This is not just another podcast—it's an achievement episode in the realm of divorce education, reframing co-parenting and post-separation life as opportunities for growth and resilience.

• Dr. Stahl shares deeply human stories and expert guidance on creating customized parenting plans that prioritize children’s well-being over rigid formulas.
• The discussion explores co-parenting vs. parallel parenting, highlighting real-world tools for managing conflict and fostering trust.
• Listeners are reminded that “parenting isn’t a percentage”—it's about presence, quality, and modeling responsibility.

A Message of Hope

Whether you're navigating a high-conflict separation or quietly adjusting to single parenting, this episode offers a beacon of compassion and clarity. As Dr. Stahl so poignantly puts it, “It's not about the parents. It’s about the kids.”

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Introducing the Smart Divorce: A Pioneering Step Toward Empowered, Compassionate Separation

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Dr. Robert Simon

A Milestone in Divorce Education and Support

In this achievement episode of The Smart Divorce—a groundbreaking predecessor to the acclaimed Soft Landing Podcast—we invite listeners to take the first courageous step toward navigating divorce with clarity, integrity, and heart. This inaugural conversation is more than just a podcast—it's a call to revolutionize how we experience and approach the end of a marriage. Through candid reflections and expert insights, host Deborah Moskovich shares her personal journey from guilt-ridden separation to empowered educator. Alongside co-host Steve Peck and clinical psychologist Dr. Robert Simon, this episode sheds light on what really happens in the emotionally charged early stages of divorce.

• Learn why slowing down the process can lead to better outcomes for families.
• Discover how therapy and communication shape a smarter, more humane divorce.
• Understand why “being smart” about divorce means preparing emotionally as well as legally.

Why This Episode Matters

This is where it all began. With empathy, truth, and expert insight, this episode paved the way for a more thoughtful and emotionally intelligent conversation around separation. Whether you're contemplating divorce or supporting someone through it, this podcast is your first step toward a softer landing.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca