Forgiveness as a Path to Healing: A Smarter Way Forward After Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Guest Dr. Mark Rye

Milestone Episode in Divorce Education—A Predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast

This powerful episode of The Smart Divorce marks a transformative shift in how we understand and experience separation. In what can only be called a landmark conversation, host Deborah Moskovich welcomes Dr. Mark Rye, Associate Professor of Psychology at Skidmore College, whose pioneering research on forgiveness illuminates an often-overlooked but crucial part of healing.

A Unique Angle: Forgiveness & the Parent-Child Dynamic

Rather than framing forgiveness as forgetting or condoning harm, this episode reframes it as an act of personal liberation—especially vital for parents navigating life after divorce. Dr. Rye shares compelling insights into how forgiving an ex-spouse can:

• Reduce depression and enhance emotional well-being
• Improve parenting and reduce child exposure to conflict
• Change toxic dynamics by “taking back the remote control” on emotional triggers

A Smarter, More Humane Approach

This episode is not just another conversation—it's a foundational step toward a healthier, more compassionate post-divorce journey. It embodies the guiding philosophy that would later shape the Soft Landing Podcast, making it a must-listen for anyone ready to move forward with clarity, grace, and courage.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Recognizing the Signs: A Smarter, More Empathetic Approach to Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck

Featuring Insights from the Pioneering Voice Behind The Smart Divorce

In this powerful and thought-provoking achievement episode of The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, host Deborah Moskovich joins Steve Peck to explore the critical—but often overlooked—early warning signs that a spouse may be planning to divorce. Framed with compassion and wisdom, this conversation is a landmark in divorce education, laying the groundwork for what would later become the Soft Landing Podcast.

Why This Episode Matters

• It shines a light on the emotional and financial cues that often precede a separation—like rejigging gifts from in-laws, juggling assets, and withdrawals from joint credit lines.
• It validates the confusion, fear, and isolation people feel when blindsided by divorce.
• It emphasizes introspection, emotional readiness, and professional guidance over reactionary decisions.

What You'll Take Away

• Signs that your relationship may be in quiet crisis.
• The critical role of financial awareness and self-advocacy.
• Why friends may not be the best advisors—and how a divorce consultant can provide clarity and calm.

This episode is not just a guide—it’s a compassionate companion for anyone navigating uncertainty in their marriage. It's also a pivotal moment in reshaping how we talk about divorce: with honesty, dignity, and hope.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Reimagining Divorce with Intelligence, Empathy, and Empowerment

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Special Guest Judge Lynn Toler

A Milestone Episode in Divorce Education

Welcome to a defining moment in divorce discourse. In this groundbreaking episode of The Smart Divorce on Divorce Source Radio, we’re honored to host Judge Lynn Toler, former municipal court judge and longtime host of the iconic television series Divorce Court. Known for her deep insights into relationship dynamics and judicial fairness, Judge Lynn takes us beyond the screen to reveal what truly matters in divorce—and how to move through it with clarity, dignity, and emotional intelligence.

What Makes This Episode a Landmark:

• It's a predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, setting the tone for future compassionate conversations about separation.
• Judge Lynn dismantles the illusions of courtroom drama, emphasizing mediation, communication, and emotional maturity as the true pathways to resolution.
• She shares powerful lessons on domestic violence awareness, gender dynamics, and the emotional toll of divorce—offering hope and tools to heal.
• Her message: Divorce isn’t the end—it can be a transformational beginning.

Why You’ll Want to Listen:

This episode is more than an interview; it’s a guide to reclaiming power, fostering empathy, and making smarter choices in one of life’s toughest transitions. Whether you’re divorced, divorcing, or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a new way forward.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Surviving Domestic Violence: A New Chapter of Hope and Safety

With Hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck, Featuring Guests Rachel and Tim Wenzel

Breaking Free, Finding Strength

In this powerful achievement episode of The Smart Divorce—a trailblazer and forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast—we spotlight a story that transcends survival and celebrates the courage to start anew. Join hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck as they welcome Rachel, a brave mother and educator, who recounts her harrowing yet inspiring journey out of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse. Rachel's escape wasn't spontaneous—it was a meticulously planned operation, guided by protective security expert Tim Wenzel. With empathy, resilience, and precision, this episode unpacks the logistics of “leaving without a trace,” the emotional toll of domestic abuse, and the transformative power of support and planning.

This Episode Is a Milestone Because:

• It highlights the often-invisible trauma of emotional and verbal abuse.
• It illustrates a rare collaboration between a survivor and a security consultant.
• It boldly challenges societal and religious stigmas surrounding divorce and abuse.
• It empowers listeners with tangible steps toward safety, healing, and self-worth.

Key Takeaway

Abuse thrives in silence. Healing begins with hope—and a plan. This episode is a testament that with the right support, it is possible to break generational cycles of violence and create a future defined by love, freedom, and dignity.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Spending the Holidays Alone: Reframing Solitude as Strength

Hosted by Steve Peck and featuring Deborah Moskovich of The Smart Divorce

Welcome to an Achievement Episode in Divorce Education

This powerful episode of Divorce Source Radio marks a milestone in the journey toward healthier, more compassionate separations. It also stands as a spiritual forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast—one that continues the mission of transforming pain into personal growth.

Theme: The Emotional Terrain of Holidays After Divorce

In a conversation as raw as it is reassuring, Steve and Deborah offer real talk on navigating the loneliness, loss, and longing that can surface during holidays post-divorce. With empathy and honesty, they share stories of split Christmas mornings, solo Hanukkah nights, and the aching silence of traditions interrupted.

• Deborah's firsthand experiences of parenting through bar mitzvahs and birthdays without a partner
• Steve’s poignant reflections on filming Christmas mornings—then facing the first one alone
• Creative strategies for reframing holidays, including opting out, giving back, and starting new traditions
• The deep truth: "Love may not vanish, but it can transform."

Impact: From Pain to Empowerment

This episode goes beyond survival—it offers a blueprint for reclaiming the holidays as a time of self-reflection, connection, and even joy. It invites listeners to embrace the discomfort of “firsts” as the beginning of their most meaningful evolution.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Protecting Your Children Through Divorce: A Smarter, More Compassionate Approach

With Hosts Deborah Moskovich & Steve Peck, Featuring Guest Rosalind Sedacca

Welcome to a Milestone in Divorce Education

This powerful episode of The Smart Divorce marks an achievement moment in the evolving landscape of family separation. With empathy, insight, and practical guidance, this conversation serves as a cornerstone in reshaping how parents navigate divorce with their children at heart—laying the emotional and educational groundwork for what would later become the Soft Landing Podcast.

A Groundbreaking Conversation

Our featured guest, Rosalind Sedacca—recognized globally as the voice of Child-Centered Divorce—shares her visionary work, including the creation of International Child-Centered Divorce Month. Together with host Deborah Moskovich, they explore:

• How to shield children from emotional harm during and after divorce
• Why January is known as "Divorce Month" and what that means for families
• Effective, child-focused communication strategies and practical tools like Sedacca’s customizable storybook
• The dangers of “parentifying” children and how to preserve their childhood

A Legacy of Insight and Change

This is more than a podcast—it's a movement toward smarter, more humane separations. As a predecessor to the Soft Landing Podcast, it captures the heart of what matters most: protecting the next generation through informed, intentional choices.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Redefining Commitment: The 21st-Century Prenup

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck | Featuring Special Guest Ed Weiner

Introducing a Groundbreaking Conversation on Prenups, Postnups & Cohabitation Agreements

In this milestone episode of The Smart Divorce, we delve into one of the most vital yet misunderstood aspects of modern relationships: legal agreements that protect love, partnership, and personal assets. This is no ordinary discussion—it’s an “achievement episode” in divorce education, setting the foundation for what would later evolve into the Soft Landing Podcast. Renowned divorce attorney Ed Weiner—recognized by Worth magazine as one of the top 10 divorce lawyers in the U.S.—joins hosts Deborah Moskovich and Steve Peck for an inspiring, clarifying, and deeply humane look at how we can protect what matters most when love and law intersect.

• Understand why Ed calls prenups the "engagement ring of the 21st century"
• Explore the differences between prenups, postnups, and cohabitation agreements
• Learn how these contracts can actually enhance trust and clarity in relationships
• Gain powerful insights into fairness, financial transparency, and protecting family legacies

The Start of a Smarter, More Humane Approach to Separation

Whether you're contemplating marriage, moving in together, or navigating a complex family dynamic, this episode is your invitation to rethink protection not as a barrier to love—but as an extension of it.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca

Overcoming Obstacles: A Humane Approach to High-Conflict Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich with guest Stephen Benmor

A Milestone in Divorce Education

This episode of *The Smart Divorce* marks an achievement episode—a seminal conversation in reshaping how we approach divorce when mental health, personality disorders, and high-conflict dynamics come into play. As a forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, it lays the groundwork for a more collaborative, trauma-aware legal landscape.

Episode Highlights

In a candid and deeply compassionate dialogue, Deborah Moskovich and renowned family lawyer Stephen Benmor unpack what happens when truth, trust, and toxic behaviors collide in the divorce process. This conversation doesn’t shy away from hard truths—it embraces them with empathy, logic, and real-world strategies.

• How personality disorders can derail mediation—and what to do when “working harder” isn’t the answer
• The legal system as both a remedy and a reality check for high-conflict cases
• Why lies, even small ones, must be triaged for relevance—not emotion
• Understanding the unexpected legal responsibilities of step- and social-parents

Why This Matters

This episode sets the tone for a smarter, more humane approach to separation—one that elevates fairness over fury and healing over hostility. Whether you're navigating divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode will leave you better informed, better equipped, and more hopeful.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

Connect with US: to.softlandingpodcast.ca