Overcoming Obstacles: A Humane Approach to High-Conflict Divorce

Hosted by Deborah Moskovich with guest Stephen Benmor

A Milestone in Divorce Education

This episode of *The Smart Divorce* marks an achievement episode—a seminal conversation in reshaping how we approach divorce when mental health, personality disorders, and high-conflict dynamics come into play. As a forerunner to the Soft Landing Podcast, it lays the groundwork for a more collaborative, trauma-aware legal landscape.

Episode Highlights

In a candid and deeply compassionate dialogue, Deborah Moskovich and renowned family lawyer Stephen Benmor unpack what happens when truth, trust, and toxic behaviors collide in the divorce process. This conversation doesn’t shy away from hard truths—it embraces them with empathy, logic, and real-world strategies.

• How personality disorders can derail mediation—and what to do when “working harder” isn’t the answer
• The legal system as both a remedy and a reality check for high-conflict cases
• Why lies, even small ones, must be triaged for relevance—not emotion
• Understanding the unexpected legal responsibilities of step- and social-parents

Why This Matters

This episode sets the tone for a smarter, more humane approach to separation—one that elevates fairness over fury and healing over hostility. Whether you're navigating divorce or supporting someone who is, this episode will leave you better informed, better equipped, and more hopeful.

💬 Thanks for Listening

Ken Maynard

Thank you for joining us on the Soft Landing Divorce Podcast, where we believe that separation can be a starting point—not just an end. With the right support, you can navigate this transition with dignity, clarity, and a vision for your future. I’m Ken Maynard, Accredited Family Mediator and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and founder of Divorce the Smartway. I help separating couples find resolution through constructive dialogue, practical financial planning, and family-first solutions.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 360-3200
• 🌐 Website: divorcethesmartway.ca
• 📧 Email: kmaynard@dtsw.ca

Sarah Bates

I believe every ending can be the beginning of a healthier, more empowered life. I’m Sarah Bates—divorce consultant, educator, and advocate for compassionate separation. If you're navigating separation, co-parenting, or just need guidance on building the right team, I’m here to help.

• 📞 Phone: (647) 493-1800
• 🌐 Website: www.thesmartdivorce.com
• 📧 Email: sarah@thesmartdivorce.com

Let’s build your soft landing—together.

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